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What makes you feel truly alive?

5/11/2016

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Child sees magic
You know what I'm talking about - those moments when things seem to intensify, perhaps seeming to effortlessly flow.  Heightened physical senses or emotions bring us directly into the moment.  Perhaps time seems to slow down, speed up or cease to exist at all.  You forget about anything else but what is going on right now and you feel vibrant, like you are exactly where you need to be.

What causes these moments of feeling alive?

Certainly, some of these experiences can be explained by the fight or flight response - adrenaline flows through us increasing our sensory perception and awareness.  Perhaps, you or a loved one is in a life threatening situation, or perhaps you are going to that all important job interview.  Perhaps, you are competing in a sport, striving the play the best you can.
But, it may come from other feelings too.  A sense of expansion during meditation, or while out in nature for example.  These are moments when we are connected to ourselves and the rest of the universe - when our ego's and perceived commitments get out of the way and the timeless expansiveness of the soul floods into us.  They are moments when we simply expressing our source energy in it's purest form, doing what we love.  
jumping in the river
We see this in children all of the time.  There's no need to hold back expression because of fear of what people may think, or a need to control emotions.  There's no 'plan of action' - just a spontaneous flowing of expression. 

What makes me feel alive?

For me there are many things that cause this feeling.  It comes when my ego gets out of the way (thus it is possible to feel this all of the time), and goes when I am stuck in desire for something, or placating myself with entertainment.  It's when I'm completely engaged in the moment, with my entire being.  I doesn't even have to be a positive thing that I'm doing - sometimes crying or doing something that pushes my comfort zone has the same effect.  
Here are a few personal examples:
  • When I'm doing a sit down meditation or an active meditation, like being on a walk.  I can feel myself and everything around me.  All the subtle vibrations of energy that I often miss, and there's nothing else happening but that.
  • I like to play Basketball.  I love it when the team seems to be thinking and moving as one, like we are one organism, knowing what each individual brings to the team and reacting spontaneously according to the moment.  I love it when I intuitively know what to do.  I love the dance between offense and defense, the flow of people, weaving in and out of each other.
  • I play the banjo.  Playing music is not so much about the succession of notes that you play, but the way that you play them, the feeling behind them.  Playing with others is magical in that we all have our set roles, expressing our instruments own unique expression, but with room for improvisation - again I see it like a dance, or a great conversation.
  • For me, one of the greatest feelings of aliveness, is when I observe divine synchronicity - the universe seems to adjust itself to give me the message that I need (not necessarily want) at the time.  I'm still amazed by this one - perhaps I'll never fully get used to it. In some ways I hope I don't.
Deep connection
I feel immensely alive when interacting on a deep level with others.  Perhaps it's a deeply sincere conversation, sharing our innermost feelings, or perhaps through play, dancing, singing or making love. 

Feeling alive in tough times

I've heard many people say how alive they've felt during times of adversity.  I remember when I first began to feel this - it was when I had crashed my car, which I needed for my business at the time.  Making space to overcome the hurdle felt truly empowering!

If we can enter into these times with awareness, and not seek to avoid them, then we can find that these are opportunities for us to really feel who we are.  We can rise to the challenge, and the rewards are priceless.  It's in times of darkness that our light shines the brightest!

Dancing in the rain
"It is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about learning how to dance in the rain!"  -Openhand

A quick note on entertainment

The allures of entertainment are dangerous.  Of course, our whole society is geared towards making us dependent on entertainment.  It is the way we are taught to relax and unwind after a stressful day.  And there are many things that we can gain from books, TV, sports etc if we are awake enough, but most of the time they are simply used like a tranquiliser - a way of forgetting ourselves and our lives.  The danger is that this becomes an addiction, just like alcohol, as we placate ourselves with every free moment where we suddenly find we have nothing to do.  Do you feel truly alive when you're lost in entertainment? 

Formula for 'aliveness'

To put it in really simple terms, I see the feelings of being totally alive as something like this:

Being in the moment + (personal expression - ego attachments) + connection = Pure Life

What makes you feel totally alive?

Now I want to hear from you.  What makes you feel alive?  How does it feel to you? 
With love,
Richard

Related reading:  Being in the moment vs. daydreaming
                                       Too much noise: steps toward inner peace

2 Comments
Valerie Johnston
25/3/2017 03:31:45 am

Discovery makes me feel alive - heading out with no idea where I am going or what I will find. I always find something - a beautiful view, a beautiful encounter with a stranger, a majestic bird hovering above me, a quirky store with unusual treasures, a memorable piece of art. There's always something. Starting with no expectations is the perfect way to discover how many amazing things there are in the world and that makes me feel alive with great anticipation for all the wonderful things yet to come. Thank you so much for asking and for sharing your views. Much love xxxxx

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Richard link
25/3/2017 10:54:39 am

Hi Valerie,

Thanks so much for your sharing. Yes, isn't it wonderful to view the world with fresh, childlike eyes, marveling at the wonders out there and exploring what live on this planet has to offer. It's so easy to get stuck in planning, and what you describe perfectly illustrates what I'm talking about. Spontaneity is the spice of life! Thank you again for connecting and stay magical!

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